Author Topic: How do you break a link?  (Read 1770 times)

onishadowolf

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How do you break a link?
« on: May 09, 2009, 10:32:01 am »
For emotional well being, how do you break a link with someone. I'm tired of getting sick when she is fooling around with someone and getting her headaches and getting her emotional state before she comes into my vicinity. Having a general idea of her whereabouts.

I need to break the link!! My breaking point is getting close again, I can't stand it!  Please someone tell me how to break it.

And yes I still have feelings for her, but when you add the link to that, it's too much. I can't move on if I can feel what the hell she is feeling and doing. 
« Last Edit: May 09, 2009, 10:39:50 am by onishadowolf »
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Re: How do you break a link?
« Reply #1 on: May 09, 2009, 04:03:12 pm »
  First step my freind is seperation, physical seperation I mean.  If you can find someone else to stay with, then I would urge you to do it, only because the closer you physically are to someone, the stronger the spiritual/emotional/pschological link is.  After you are seperated the link will slowly ( stress slowly ) become weaker, until it is bearable.  I know you two still live in the same apartment, I know you care for her, but it sounds as if it is no longer a good situation for you, physically or spiritually. 
 
  If it is not possible, then try for even a few days, go caming ( sure in the bayou, just don't make camp on the ground ), right now it sounds as if any type of reprieve will do you good.

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Re: How do you break a link?
« Reply #2 on: May 10, 2009, 06:24:01 am »
Yeah, I forgot you know a little about the apartment situation Muerte.

I really can't get the time off. So, I try to stay away as much as possible. I wake up in the middle of the night to her crawling into bed from the couch or dragging me from the couch to the bed. And I used up all my "Can I stay here for awhile?" cards. 
« Last Edit: May 12, 2009, 09:48:36 pm by onishadowolf »
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Re: How do you break a link?
« Reply #3 on: May 10, 2009, 08:24:51 am »
Sounds like a physical incarnation of a Succubi, alls I can say is gl my freind.  Remember, that which doesn't kill you....
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Re: How do you break a link?
« Reply #4 on: May 11, 2009, 01:03:44 am »
yeah, you can say that again. It's hard to separate myself from her, after almost 2 and half years of being together. It's hard.
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Re: How do you break a link?
« Reply #5 on: May 12, 2009, 02:12:39 pm »
I broke up with my gf after 5 years together. It was my place so I was lucky and kicked her ass out the door. Eventualy we met up again and started seeing each other quite often. Were back together but not living together. I dont know about your living position but one of you has to go. You cant go on like that. A friend of mine did exactly what your doin, hes is now my roommate.
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Re: How do you break a link?
« Reply #6 on: May 12, 2009, 08:58:48 pm »
Well, fiance dropped one hell of a ton of bricks on me, six days before our anniversary. With four months left on our lease. Three days after she breaks off our engagement, she is going out with guys shes met at work, you know go to the bar have a couple of drinks, make out with them, then she is like didn't want anything serious I just wanted to have some fun, so she doesn't talk to them again because they want more than what she giving.

Five days ago she meets a guy online and talks to him on the phone and meets up with him. The second date she stays the night. And she stayed the night there last night too. Argh!!!  You think she would have the common courtesy to wait til we were not under the same roof. And not run around the apartment naked asking me what she should wear to her date. $@*king mot#*$&@?+er punishment from hell, I swear she is, because doesn't even have to try.  I am way off topic here. The point was to break a pychic link. I'm willing to do it the damaging way at this point. My stomach is curdling. With every emotion I feel from the link. I can't even fathom what would happen if she got more physical with the guy. I thinl the flow of feelings and emotions from that would damage my psyche. 
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Re: How do you break a link?
« Reply #7 on: May 14, 2009, 07:26:42 am »
http://www.amagicalworld.com/energy_etheric.php

Try here. Its not much but it might help.
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Re: How do you break a link?
« Reply #8 on: May 15, 2009, 07:26:57 am »
Oh... my... GOD! That article is just a piece of electronic trash, pay it no mind. I would understand someone giving their opinion, but cutting, shuffling, and gluing different aspects of different religions together to say what you want them to say in a convenient way is just lunacy.

Oni, I'm going to send you a PM with specific instructions on breaking this, tailored to you specifically. It will not be easy, it will hurt - a lot. However, you have an inner strength that even you are unaware of - so stop your blubbering and man up young man... because the s**t's about to hit the fan in your household.

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Re: How do you break a link?
« Reply #9 on: May 15, 2009, 11:50:21 am »
Thanks Moloch. I'm going to try that.
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