@AWBrielle: people will chose anything they feel comfortable with (more or less) to hide. Same like victims of abductions hide behind the simpathy for the one that abducted them i guess. Hide ur true face and it wont get hurt. Some will hide behind religion, some behind military serve, some behind inventing some fantasy creatures that are grose to "regular" people, some behind getting hurt or hurting someone else... this world is seriously fd, no one can deny that. And to survive in it, people adapt in many different ways, depending on their character/culture/religion. Being true these days is a very rare thing..... Im hiding in my sofa XD
Thats exactly why christianity and catholicism are separate things. I know a lot of catholics that are biding to the rules of the institution, and then a lot of people that dont call themselves catholics, but are more christian then most that go to church on every sunday. Its all the matter of personal choice i guess. Id rather stay out of house blessing list, then out of faith i carry in me (with all the doubts and questioning).
I know, its just what most people do. And it annoys me becaus, to me atleast, it seems like they act nice because they either fear judgemnt of some "God" or seek reward for their acts.
I mean no offense by this post, but I think for some people it isn't growing up in a faith; it's a matter of hiding behind one.